yeah I know that but my friends and I had a ten minute argument about how to describe/determine the gem without using things like female and male and stuff like that. but do you kinda agree that rhodonites pearl component might not be the colour pink because the clothing item over it might be distorting the colour, like how peridot's visor distorts the real colour of her eyes?
//suddenly appears// gems doesn't have genders because whatever (i have been in a VERY LONG thread about that) but they call between themselves with female pronouns, so just follow canon and don't think about it :v
the pronoun they are given is usually dictated by physical apearence/humanoid form that they have decided to take. it took me and my friends at least ten minutes to figure that out. that was after the three days spent debating whether steven has a gender or a pronoun. lets just say we got to the point where we didn't remember why we were doing it.